Love Life Purpose – Dream Big
Dreaming sparks inspiration and opens up new possibilities, while setting a goal is how you turn those possibilities into reality through focused effort and planning. I’ve always been a dreamer, but not all of my dreams have become structured goals I’ve actively pursued.
As a child, I often found myself gazing out the classroom window, imagining adventures and achievements—some of which I eventually realized.
Away from my dreams, the classroom was hell for me. I was accused of being a dreamer (no points for that), lazy, careless, inattentive, poor reader, disorganized, and a host of other things, too.
In my forties, a friend mentioned in passing about a test she had done by a doctor who was a specialist in ADD/HD and dyslexia. She explained she had been diagnosed with ADHD. She suggested I make an appointment to see the doctor. I was diagnosed with ADD and dyslexia.
The doctor explained that the condition was incurable, but the effects could be managed by setting a strategy for my life. He helped me to do this, and over the last forty-odd years, I’ve never looked back. I still have effects, including not seeing numbers and text in front of my eyes and seeing numbers and text that aren’t there, among others.
Better than this, I have never stopped dreaming, and I like it that way. Dreaming helps me to write, especially fiction. Much of the time, the characters I create are me (especially the heroes. 😊). At the very least, they bear resemblance to me. Dreaming allows me the freedom to reach heights that I may not see in my life. I can visit places that will never be a reality for me because they do not exist.
Why are some people natural dreamers? Research points to a few reasons:
- Imagination is part of growing up: Daydreaming helps us learn and experiment without limits.
- Curiosity and creativity: Some people are naturally wired to imagine and explore “what if” scenarios.
- Unique brain wiring: Conditions like ADD or dyslexia can lead to creative thinking and wandering minds.
- Coping mechanism: Dreaming can help us escape stress or boredom and make sense of our experiences.
Being a dreamer isn’t about achievements—it’s about how your mind enjoys exploring, imagining, and playing, whether for fun, coping, or personal growth.
Here are a couple of examples of dreams becoming reality:
Anecdote 1:
A few years ago, a friend asked me for advice on starting a Dream Board Group. We organized a trial meeting at a local restaurant, advertised it, and were overwhelmed by the response. That group helped my friend turn a long-held dream of starting an art and craft business into reality. It was inspiring to see how a simple idea, when acted on, could bring people together and make dreams come true.
Anecdote 2:
Looking back, I realize that some of my childhood dreams were surprisingly specific. I imagined becoming a pilot, a water ski racer, owning my own powerboat, running my own holiday resort, and driving a snazzy sports car. While I haven’t accomplished every dream, I’m proud to say I achieved these and many others. These experiences taught me that even if not all dreams come true, pursuing them can lead to some incredible adventures.
In summary, dreams can be experiences during sleep (REM Sleep) or aspirations we hope to achieve. Dreamers are motivated by creativity, curiosity, and the joy of imagining. Anyone can pursue their dreams—so live life to the fullest and dream big!
Call to Action:
Take a moment today to reflect on your own dreams—big or small. Choose one that excites you, and take the first step toward making it a reality. Remember, every achievement starts with a dream and a willingness to act. Don’t just dream – dare to.


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